I am sure you have seen those scenes in the movies. You know the one with the main character standing in front of the mirror ‘talking to themselves’, repeating affirmation after affirmation. I’m going to be honest I used to think “what’s the purpose of that” or “Oh this character has some issues”. Now as a (lets say) mature adult, I get it, affirmation is encouragement no matter who it may come from.
So think about the thoughts that run through your mind every day. For the average person that can be anywhere between 12,000 and 60,000. That’s a lot right? Right! Now think about the thoughts you have towards yourself, are they ALWAYS positive. Chances are they are not, we are the hardest on ourselves.
Affirmations can be a powerful tool to enhance your thinking and results. It might seem silly to repeat statements that you view as essentially untrue, but give it a try for a month just one month and measure the results for yourself. It can take time to see the benefits. A few days just aren’t enough. Give yourself a full month.
Below I have included some tips to use affirmations effectively.
Create a new life and way of thinking through the power of affirmations:
- Determine your negative beliefs. The best way to create positive affirmations that work for you is to determine where your current thinking is holding you back. Spend a day and focus on your self-talk. Make a note of all the negative thoughts you think throughout the day. Write them down.
- Create your affirmations based on your negative beliefs. Affirmations should be stated in the present and in a positive manner. Spend the time to create affirmations that address all of your negative thoughts. For example:
- “I don’t have any friends” becomes “I make friends quickly and easily.”
- “I can’t get in shape” becomes “I find it easy to eat well, exercise, and lose weight.”
- Record your affirmations so you can listen to them. You’ll want to be able to listen to your affirmations in the car, at home, or on the go. Record them into your cell phone or iPod-type device. Whatever works for you is fine.
- Have a written record of your affirmations, too. Keep a copy with you and post other copies where you’ll see them: at work, in the kitchen, bathroom, bedroom, and your locker at the gym. Choose places that make sense for your lifestyle.
- Never pass up the opportunity to listen to or read your affirmations. Stuck in line at the store? Pull out your iPod or list of affirmations and listen or read. Use your spare time to recite your affirmations to yourself.
- The time right before falling asleep and right after waking up are most important. Your brain is more receptive to suggestion during these times. Use them to your advantage. It only takes a few minutes. You might even find that you sleep better.
- Notice your success. The changes you experience will be very subtle. You probably won’t even recognize them unless you’re looking for them. Once a week, sit down and think about your life. Ask yourself how things are improving. What positive changes are you seeing?
- Keep a list of your successes. Keep a journal so you don’t forget about the progress you’ve made. You’re already good at keeping track of your failures, so do yourself a favor and do the same for your successes. Review your successes to keep them fresh in your mind. Success leads to more success, so keep track, you got this!
- Repeat the entire process as needed. Over time, you’ll develop new, negative self-talk. Use it to your advantage. Add new affirmations to your list and use them. Your self-talk will become less negative as you become more aware of it. This is a process you can use throughout your lifetime so repeat, repeat, repeat.
If you’ve never given affirmations a try, you’re in for a surprise. As simple as affirmations can be, it can be challenging getting started. Avoid allowing your resistance to stop you.
Forge ahead and give affirmations your best effort for just a month. Affirmations are a simple method to tame your self-talk and use it to your advantage.
Proverbs 18:21, “Death and Life are in the power of the tongue and those who love it will eat its fruits.” <--- Look at that, what you say will bring fruit, it's up to you whether its good or bad fruit.
Your words negative or positive are powerful, speak wisely. Be kind to yourself already. You have it in you to be the best you possible TODAY!
OK Until Next Time.
You Got This
Remember give it a month!